Why every time i go to a family party, they ask me “What happened to your past gf?” or “Dont you have a gf yet? You’re a nice boy”

All i can do is smile and probably shrug lol.

What i really wanted to say is that most women are shallow as fuck(men are the same too, relax feminists’) and just want that pretty boy they cant have. 

Relationships are too complicated, man…. Feelings are involved and one or the other has to be vulnerable. I know you gain experience but sometimes that experience what you go through with a person you loved to me feels like a waste of time and effort, time to me is very valuable… I know my mindset might be a little stagnant, but i just wanna be reassured that next time i would wanna step into another relationship. All and all im happy to meet another woman if shes down with a broke college kid that has ramen to feed her, chill at home and play xbox, watch movies and just cuddle.  But naw, women prefer to go out and spend my money. smh lol. I mean its coo once and awhile but all the time tho? i think not lol.